tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881434802594149879.post7341472141807785056..comments2013-10-02T12:42:28.150-07:00Comments on Little Mrs. INfertile Myrtle: We've All had Those Moments-Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881434802594149879.post-74288984478875559392013-03-24T06:57:55.846-07:002013-03-24T06:57:55.846-07:00That makes me happy to hear, I will definitely fol...That makes me happy to hear, I will definitely follow your blog. I am glad to hear you guys made a decision, I know making decisions for anything involving infertility is always a chore--and I like that you have allowed yourself the option to back out at any point as a way of helping you deal with your anxiety about it. I will be anxious to read your blog! Infertile Myrtle, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626666779118506750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881434802594149879.post-6458612094016610522013-03-23T19:02:19.457-07:002013-03-23T19:02:19.457-07:00Yes, we agreed to do it. We were a bit stunned wh...Yes, we agreed to do it. We were a bit stunned when they asked us because they told us they were pregnant all in the same breath--on Skype mind you! Although I have cried about it for months, I turned a corner in January, when I came to realize that saying no would mean that I lost hope that we'd have our own child one day. Plus, seeing her photos online made me feel guilty because she's so cute and innocent. (They live far away.) With all that said, I have told myself that if I want to back out at any point between now and August, we will. That seems to calm me when I feel anxious about it. I fear everyone looking at us inside the church, feeling bad for us--the poor infertiles. (Did I mention this is their 3rd child?) Anyhow, like you said, I don't want to have any regrets in the future, when all of this behind us. And, yes, I have a blog. I changed my name to "Eve," deciding to be a bit more anonymous, so I can allow myself to be as honest as I can. I'm still getting used to blogging, so we'll see how it goes. However, you have inspired me with your own blog! http://thecountessofclomid.blogspot.com Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15260723824329854148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881434802594149879.post-13749690454767909902013-03-23T07:23:07.120-07:002013-03-23T07:23:07.120-07:00Wow, that must be hard for you to do. I assume you...Wow, that must be hard for you to do. I assume you've told them you would do it? I try to look at things this way sometimes--One day you may regret your decision had you not done it. Although it may hurt at the time, one day when you are holding your own baby in your arms I would hope (for the sake of every infertile) that most of the pain in infertility will just be a very distant memory. Have you talked to your brother and sister-in-law about how you are feeling? I pray you find the strength to get you through the christening that day. BTW- do you have a blog? I like to keep up with all you other ladies on here but couldn't find a blog link on your profile...Infertile Myrtle, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626666779118506750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881434802594149879.post-20660916814052487752013-03-21T08:28:11.480-07:002013-03-21T08:28:11.480-07:00I am so glad you are blogging again. Your honesty...I am so glad you are blogging again. Your honesty about your experiences really does help me and I am sure it is also helping other. Hopefully, most importantly, it is helping you. I think you have amazing courage and strength. Truly. <br /><br />Me and my husband were asked by my brother and his wife to baptize their third child in August. They asked us when she was two months pregnant. For one year now, I have been imagining us standing in front of everyone at the church with me bawling my eyes out. Although we are honored to be asked, I don't think they have any clue how we are feeling. I just pray I will feel differently on the day of the christening.Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15260723824329854148noreply@blogger.com